Ex contacted me again: round 2- return of the avoidant

2022.01.16 21:48 Empathy-101 Ex contacted me again: round 2- return of the avoidant

My DA gf dumped me in early December 2020, I held out for two weeks and contacted her again but she refused to consider reconciliation so I did the ‘no contact’ and worked on myself etc. on march 30th 2021 she reached out and I considered the email for a couple of days ( she had written she can’t get get me out of her head and wrote cute stuff about our cat etc ) I responded formally and she wrote back to me asking if we can meet. To which I said I can meet her 3 weeks later since I was traveling g with friends.
Round 1: we met at a bar in April , got a little drunk and went back to her place. Back at her home after sex she put her head on n my chest and said ‘ you are my home and there can be only one such place’. I was really taken by this cheesy line because she wasn’t an expressive person (DA). Next day I did ask her to think about tying the knot because we had had those discussions a few months before breaking up. I wanted to get married. She said she needed time to think without the pressure of a relationship. Did not sit well with me. I did therapy and read a lot of books about attachment style, relationship and human psychology In My time away. I introduced these articles/research papers to her and she realized that she was a DA. I’m 75 percent secure with some anxious traits. My love language is words of affirmation and hers is physical touch. So told her how that works. I told her even if she is uncomfy at first she should try little things like texting me about what she feels about me or us or about the activities that we do together.
I did want to deal with the past unresolved issues before we started a new relationship but she would deactivate and not want to talk about it . 1.5 months into the gig she started distancing herself from me. I asked her what’s up and she said she can’t be in a relationship with me or anyone as it created a pressure of expectations. I asked her why she even reached out to me and she said she didn’t know . I just left
I reached out to her again after 2 weeks but her responses were cold. So I apologized for reaching out and was ignored .
Round 2: same thing. No contact for 6.5 months in the meantime two months ago she sends a random drunk text that she deleted immediately in 2 hours- I ignored this And now couple of days ago I get another text where she said - hi do you think you can meet me next week for a bit. I have presently ignored this text.
It’s important to be with people that respect you. People can’t send a casual text and expect people they hurt to jump back right into their life.
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Hello everyone,
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So there’s this girl and we have said we are just friends and have been for about a month now and from the beginning and both have said we know we don’t like eachother and we both want platonic.
We are however very close. We grocery shop together, hang together like every day, have deep talks, give advice, compliment eachother physically and mentally, have prolonged eye contact, sleep in the same bed, sometimes flirty, etc. nothing sexual ever but sometimes we will get close cuddly for a bit but other times we give eachother space and avoid physical contact.
Idk if she does like me. Or is developing feelings for me. One thing I noticed is she is talking to this new guy, and hangs with him a good amount, says she doesn’t think she will date him but tells me they have hooked up. I’m nothing but supportive. But whenever I bring up other girls she always has something negative to say about them and that I should block them while still acting supportive.
She has said however this new guy has to be ok with us being friends or she’s ending things completely.
Anyways, things are getting serious between her and this new guy and I noticed I’m starting to get a little jealous. I think I’m starting to develop feelings for her but I’m not sure what to do about it. I feel like if I made a move or confessed to her it would really shock her unless the feeling is mutual. And it’s also so early. What do you guys think? Have you ever been in a similar situation?
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2022.01.16 21:48 Antrekr 20 [M4M] Europe - Looking for something promising with another guy

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There obviously needs to be some sort of commitment if that ever happens, such as willing to meet up in person someday. I like to give my best when I'm with somebody, so naturally I value communication and honesty.
Please don't be a psychotic or touchy freak that gets triggered at the slightest misunderstanding. I am not here to entertain a guy's ego.
That being said, my default state consists pretty much of keeping quiet and remaining calm. But I won't hesitate when it comes to being a no-bullshit person.
Nevertheless, I can be very chatty around those that I choose to invest my time on. I like being extremely polite and avoid confrontation at all costs. I am optimistic and tend not to overthink things since it certainly doesn't do my any good.
That doesn't mean I'm always smiling. I merely take a logical approach to life, and avoid worrying about those things over which I have no control, or things that happened in the past.
So, physical attraction is a given to most human beings, so I'll just state the basics: 174cm (5'8), skinny and pale twink with brown hair and brown eyes. If you must really know, I'm a bottom.
I am definitely not unattractive, that's for sure. I'd say I'm simply fairly attractive. I'm not feminine however, and I'm not interested in fulfilling your personal make-believe fantasy of looking like a woman.
My type are definitely masculine men. And I am not attracted to fat or older men, unless you're young looking.
Despite getting along more with older people, I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of people my age since I never had a chance to properly socialize with them.
And this is how I look like. That way you can make sure if I'm your type or not.
My hobbies are too simple, but I enjoy using computers (Linux with Fedora) on a daily basis, playing videogames (mostly Nintendo, especially Pokemon and Zelda) and browsing random stuff on the internet. Did you also know I have a cat because, well, I like cats?
Anyhow, those are more or less my strongest interests, and the most notorious details I can tell you about myself. If you wish to get know each other better, how about you send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself? I'd be delighted to hear from you!
Don't be a dry texter, please, you're wasting both your time as well as mine by being like that. You've been warned, just in case I decide to stop replying.
Cheers!
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