2021.12.04 16:15 emmaaa03 I know that my guy friend was cheated on and don’t know whether to tell him or not.
A short backstory: I’ve lived in a college dorm for a semester now and my roommate and I are good friends with our 2 suitemates as well as one of our suitemate’s boyfriend, who lives just down the hall from us. We’ll call the suitemate Ava, and we’ll call her boyfriend Max. They dated for all of high school and have been best friends since elementary school, but unfortunately things have been rocky between them since starting college. She’s told us that she’s lost interest but he’s still completely in love with her, but she doesn’t have the guts to break up with him.
So fast forward to a couple weeks ago, Ava’s roommate (we’ll call her Bella) walks into their room and finds Ava cuddling with another guy with his hands all over her. According to Bella, they looked like they had just pulled away from a kiss. Obviously Bella is upset at her and leaves to come tell my roommate and I what she just witnessed. We’re all friends with Max and know how sweet and how great of a guy he is, so we feel terrible for him. Bella decides to confront Ava about it and tell her she needs to break up with Max if she’s gonna be with another guy. Thankfully Ava does do it (in the same night) but she doesn’t give Max any explanation for the breakup.
Now Max is absolutely heartbroken and since he trusts us, he comes to my roommate and I for advice and support. He goes on about how much he loves her and doesn’t want to be with anyone else, and how he doesn’t understand what happened because the breakup seemed so sudden. We feel terrible knowing what we know, but decide it’s best not to tell him for now.
So the only 3 people that know she cheated are me, my roommate, and our suitemate Bella who walked in on them. Both of them keep saying it’s not our place to tell him and I’m the only one that wants to, because I think it IS our place, he’s our good friend who we care about and who deserves to know. It’s now been about a month since that happened and Max is depressed and drinking constantly. And it’s killing me inside that he still doesn’t know, and I feel like it would help him move on faster if he did now, but it’s also a really fragile situation since we live with Ava and still see her every day.
Most people I’ve talked to about this keep saying it’s not a good idea to tell him but I completely disagree. So I wanted to get more input and hear what other people think I should do. Thanks for reading.
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2021.12.04 16:15 Wolventhe6th Consent goes all ways- as does discomfort
(Trigger warning for non consensual perviness and the actual act) so I've been sitting on this story for a while now (about 5 years or so) so forgive me for forgetting some of the finer details if you would.
At the time I had been going through my bookshelf and realized I had a rulebook from one of my cousins for a system called OVA. OVA is an anime ttrpg system that uses theater of the mind instead of maps. I brought up the idea of playing with one of my friends from an old job I kept in touch with and he really liked the idea. So we got a group together of my college friends and him.
So as for our cast by virtue of being the guy with the rulebook and who had the idea I got sidled with gm duties. Not to be deterred by this I made a gmnpc that for time being we'll call him Rhel. Due to a combination of curse and trauma was functionally only there to point towards the direction of the plot and provide a tank. As well as being tragic and sort of edgy (in the don't come near me and get killed by my demon magnet curse kinda way)
Ron (the old work friend)played the cowardly neko card wizard from fantasy Japan. (He was banished after basically sleeping with this world's nobunaga' s wife) Quill a college acquaintance played a mad scientist with power gauntlets. That healed people by punching them. Then there's mari (college friend at the time)who had asked if she could play an amnesiac succubus who was a former sex slave and controlled flora with her mind. This is unfortunately relevant.
So this story has 2 parts one came after like session 3 where the party had just killed a demon lord of oppression and promptly sealed away his magical weapon. So while everyone was waiting fir rides home we were hanging out. When quill and Mari are goofing off (tickling and pinching each other).I askerd Mari of she was okay with this cause I thought she looked uncomfortable. She says they've know each other for ages so it's fine. he decides he'd like to get a look at what's under her dress without her consent. Ok not cool I don't care what she says at this point she's clearly uncomfortable and even verbally says that wasn't okay. The two are forbidden from physical touch until they leave. And I basically awkwardly sit between them to ensure quill doesn't do anything. Luckily rides arrived in about 20 minutes, and quill was booted from the game for that. Fast forward several sessions later. The gmnpc has been badly injured and Mari has since gained the ability to make magical healing plants grow. She tries to bed him after healing him. I warn he has taken a vow of celibacy as a Paladin. He does not want this. She decides that she wants to feed on the unwilling gmnpc anyways. So being that I at the time thought halting player choice in game was wrong wth no exceptions and he was an npc I caved and let her roll. She actually succeeded as uncomfortable as it made me feel. (The character had already told her no remember this). So I had his curse act up causing him to be more than what she'd bargained for hoping to deter her from doing it again. Her response was after realizing the sight of blood was what triggered his curse "so I just have to make sure he doesn't see blood next time". Weird coming from the player who told me this npc has to have a happy ending.
I later found out she was trying to flirt with me in game like this. At the time I thought it was gross but she never did anything like that in game again thankfully and courted me like a normal person after that.
We later ended up dating (think like half a year later) and when that happened she basically never showed to games, saying she'd be there but not showing up . Games got more sparse and I wrote her Character off to the sidelines for when she decided finally not to flake. I brought in some new players and eventually we finished the game.
A breakup occurred with mari before the end of that game for the same flaky behavior in our supposed relationship. This resulted in me using her characters other npc friends deaths to try and hane Maris pc confront the bbbeg early where she got cursed and was turned into a boss fight for the party. The party managed to save her from the curse but she couldn't confront the bbeg like that. (She broke up with me shorty before the final battle so I had to give a good reason she wouldn't be there and I didn't want to do the character injustice).
I still play with the rest of that group who are otherwise not toxic and understand the idea of consent and letting people feel comfortable in games. We have a great time playing nearly weekly in a sequel campaign to this that I run.
Anyways moral of the story here. Don't use social pressure to force your gms npcs to bang you if they don't want to. Gms boot people for this behavior if they don't care about you being uncomfortable they don't actually care about you. And last bit if they try flirting with you in game for above game reasons to establish a relationship DO NOT DATE THEM CRIMSON RED FLAG.
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2021.12.04 16:15 Block-Busted OT-ish: 'Diary of a Wimpy Kid' was released on Disney+ yesterday. How well do you think this would've done if it was released in cinemas?
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2021.12.04 16:15 Potato0627 [LF] holiday crafting help [FT] bells, NMTs or wishlist
I have the materials I just don’t know the DIYs. Here is the list of what I am looking to have crafted:
1 Ornament Wreath 2 Big Festive Trees 3 Festive Trees 2 illuminated deer 2 illuminated presents 3 illuminated snowflakes 4 holiday candles 3 piles of presents
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2021.12.04 16:15 Civil_Albatross_8345 Mikhael Yellow - Design Future [Experimental] 2021
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2021.12.04 16:15 HamburgerregrubmaH Fun abstract landfill explosion I made using 2 types of brushes.
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2021.12.04 16:15 LegoPenguin114 Before the chapter ends, I needed to make what is quite possibly the best cinematic moment in the entire game so far: Ryu HADOUKENing a banana.
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